I feel like a terrible “blogger.” Am I even a blogger? I don’t know. It’s been about seven months since I last posted…whoops. Chalk it up to mom brain, exhaustion, having too much fun, a lot going on, etc, but wow, I kind of suck at this blog thing.
Just here to give some quick updates on Evan and what we’ve been up to lately.
Evan is doing REALLY well. He is weaning a little more from his oxygen, but like anything in the medically complex world, it’s usually one step forward two steps back. We are taking it slow, and we are so proud of his progress. He’s still taking all of his nutrition through his g-tube. Feeding is an area where he is pretty stagnant. He just doesn’t want to do it, so we are just taking his cues and working at his pace. We’ve had lots of appointments and seen lots of doctors, but overall, no major updates. Evan will get some genetic testing results sometime in February that will give us about a 50/50 shot at a diagnosis. If we do not get a diagnosis from that specific test, we may move to genome sequencing.
A few “new” things:
Evan will be getting botox to his neck and wrist muscles in a few weeks in order to help him with his range of motion. We are excited to see how this can help him.
We are getting a new helmet for his head shape in the next week since his head has grown and changed so much.
He got his SMO ankle braces for when we practice weight bearing in his legs. They have dinosaurs on them. They are awesome.
We are monitoring some positional scoliosis from his left sided preference/low tone, but for now his new wheelchair (WOOO!) is an adequate “brace” for him. I am really hoping he doesn’t end up needing a back brace because, let’s face it, the kid has a lot going on already.
Speaking of things we may add to his body, we will figure out his vision prescription this spring as he gets closer to turning two so that he can get his first pair of glasses. I am not going to lie…I am so excited to see how cute he is in glasses.
This summer, we will also hopefully make a final decision with his John’s Hopkins oculoplastic doctor on the potential for ptosis surgery (lifting his eyelids for better clearing of his visual axis).
We are in isolation for cold/flu/RSV season. It’s been so hard watching our other medically complex friends end up in the hospital with RSV or other respiratory illnesses.
Evan is steadily growing. He’s now 20 lbs 10.4 oz and 30.5 inches tall! We will likely increase his calories soon and adjust his formula to help him continue growing and fight off some chronic constipation.
As far as motor skills go, Evan is making slow but steady progress there as well. He’s able to hold his head up for a few minutes at a time now when he is motivated. His trunk muscles are starting to engage more too. He still doesn’t want to bear any weight on his feet, but we are trying! Oh, and, he rolled over!! I still haven’t witnessed it, but he has done it EIGHT times since November. Hopefully, I will be able to share a video of it soon!
We have home health nursing! I will write a whole post on this soon!
I think that’s mostly it for his health stuff! If you know us and I missed something, let me know.
We moved! Early this fall, we bought our dream home! We are still really close to the hospital, and just about everything we could have ever wanted in a home. Moving will also be its own post later. It’s a crazy, God-filled story.
Evan is going to have a cousin! My sister is having her first baby (a boy!) in March. We are so excited! I can’t wait to watch them grow up together!
We’ve been able to have some really good time with our families over the past seven months. We took Evan on his first beach trip, and we spent a couple extra days in Maryland with my family when we went to our last Hopkins appointments. Both Alex and I have been able to make some solo trips to see our parents/siblings this fall too which has been great.
I’ve started volunteering at the hospital as a parent mentor for NICU and peds families. It’s been amazing. Right now, I am taking a break from it because of how many respiratory illnesses are around. I don’t want to bring anything home to Evan!
We’ve become a Children’s Miracle Network “Miracle Family” which is so fun! We were interviewed for the Radiothon that will air in March on our local station and I will be speaking at three different dance marathon events this spring!
We’ve really dived in at the church we started going to this summer, and we are so grateful for the family we have found there. Our faith has been strengthened by the community we’ve experienced. I can’t say enough how thankful we are to be a part of our church.
I am starting to sell some of my crafts to start saving for a wheelchair accessible van and other handicap renovations to our home for Evan. I’ve been making t-shirts for bachelorette parties, onesies, and custom signs and coffee mugs. I find so much joy in creating these pieces for other people. I may start an instagram account this weekend to post items for sale just to test the waters. I don’t know if I am ready for a full on Etsy account yet. Somehow that intimidates me. If you’re in need (or want) of any of these items, contact me!